Can We Have a Conversation About Access to Phone?

The way that you two are going about understanding who should have access to what is inherently going to be different, cause you'r different people with experiences. It's very possible that he had an x that was like, constantly going through his phone, or a, he really values his privacy because he didn't have much when he was growing up,. Like all of these different factors. And maybe he's not even thinking about it. Maybe he's just like, this is just the way that i've always operated and i haven't even thought that my partner might want more access to my phone."