Zen Buddhism - Is There a Difference Between Them?

The debate has been ging for thousands of years, raging, i don't know. Sometimes it's raging and sometimes it's silent rage. For as my my brother in law says, when he comes downwere on a family vacation, comes down to hang out after all the kids go to sleep, he says, silent rager. And so i was left, in a way, feeling like i had almost like, youknow, ha, the angel and the demon euse. Like, which one of these is right? Ah, they can't both be, or can they? And if so, why does it feel like they're so different?"