123 - The Science of Happy Relationships
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Is Your Partner Conceiving You?
Jay Parini: We're so socialized to think that if I concede on any point, that means I'm saying like, you win. And I lose. He says in a relationship it's more of this give and take rather than a battle. Parini: Sometimes an argument has to start out with a little bit of me versus you. But then once it clicks into us versus the problem, at least in my personal experience, it deescalates so quickly after that.
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