Is It Happening to You or for You?

To truly grow, to find the calm and happiness we long for, it's the internal relationship with ourselves that matters most. I understand just how heavy that is, how hard that can be, especially when deflecting blame often feels like it would be a tremendous weight off our shoulders. But again, its short term relief. It's not what you look at, it's what you see over and over and over again. Is it happening to you or for you? Is it a problem or an opportunity? Is set back or a chance to reset?"