How did your understanding, you, an shadow that you developed through studying these ideas, affects your relationship with your children? I'm curious then, obviously a big question, but were there any, were there any major changes when you went back and reunited with your family? Absolutely. What i just said caused me to really step back and not expect them to follow my careers, or even necessarily my value systems,. Although it took some, some releasing on my part to do that. Which is ultimately a loving thing to do to a child, to free them to their own journey.