The Relationship Between You and Your Mum

"I'm just a really poor communicator and reflector," says the author. "My wife had a massive head start, full stop when it came to communication" He writes that his wife Googles is he grieving or is he just really annoying? It's such a great thing to admit because I think the assumption a lot of people have if they've got a friend who's going through difficult time or is grieving or suffered a loss. The dynamic went from me as a child, her being the mum. So probably now me being a bit of a parent to her."