How to Be a Ruthless Listener

"I don't know that I've sacrificed anywhere near as much as a lot of men of my father's generation did for their, their art," she says. "It's more important to me to have a, to have a good life and be whole than it is to care only about my art." She adds: "There was a part of you through out your childhood and adulthood who was looking for your father's approval"