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How to Love People & Use Things, Whether Or Not You're A "Hoarder," Minimalist Diets & Workouts & 7 Essential Relationships with Joshua Millburn.

Ben Greenfield Life

CHAPTER

I Don't Need Their Approval, I Reclaim My Freedom

We've outsourced our happiness in a way, we sort of cling to the admiration of others. If i need some one's acceptance, they will forever wield a rubber stamp over my internal state. When i no longer need their validation, then i sort of recover that power that i relinquished in the first place. Letting go is not something you do; it's something you stop doing. We stop clinging to that thing we think is going to make us better or more complete.

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