First Love and Dressing Up

Robin talks with Holly and JJ about what it means to be transgender, the challenges of navigating relationships and gender reassignment, and why being honest with yourself and embracing who you are should always come first.

In this episode, you will learn…

• Holly’s experience of feeling like a prisoner in her body and what it means to be transgender
• The importance of a supportive and accepting environment for transgender children
• Being in a double-closet and underdressing to alleviate pain of gender dysphoria
• Understanding which terms represent gender identity
• Holly’s heterosexual relationships and feeling like an imposter
• What it was like for Holly to finally come out as transgender at age 50
• Gender reassignment and gender affirmation surgeries
• Reflecting on coming out: Don’t worry about the reaction of others, fear manifests in many ways, don’t try to hide it because it’s not going to change
• Encouragement to be open to possibilities when it comes to your sexuality
• The joy of transitioning and being accepted for who you truly are
• The importance of being upfront about your identity after you come out
• Advice for those worried about coming out to lean into your authentic self
• Everybody’s body is different, medical support is crucial for your transition journey  

Links to resources:

JJ (Jessica Jarrard), Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Owner of Rainbow Counseling & Consultation, a group private practice serving the LGBTQ community. www.rainbowcounselingservices.com

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