You're a Great Guy, but You've Don't Recognize Your Reality

A good parent would have said, okay, I know you feel bad. This sucks. So let's talk about how you can make this better. And they would have tried to help you fix it in some way. They would have actually also discounting your reality. Like everyone else is wrong. But that's what the way that your parents interacted on that level. What up for you? Regardless of what their intentions are, that's the way it came out. Now you're carrying that baggage with you, right?