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Emotional Labor

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The Problem of Emotional Labor in Heterosexual Relationships

Men are just trained and taught not to be communicative about their emotions. And in fact, incapable of doing so of even naming oftentimes. It's part of my male intuition that I just intuit nothing. But then you mentioned this other mechanism that you get from psychological research, which is the demand withdraw pattern. The dominant mode of communication in many heterosexual relationships is the situation where the woman presents an issue for discussion. That's the demand. Then the man freaks out and responds simply by shutting down and withdrawing.

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