Win Win, Win or No Deal?

Remember, again, in the last book, the relationships are win, win. You know, you can repeat back to them. Use that technique. Repeat back to them everything that they're feeling, that they're thinking. And when they agree, ye, that's right. That's right. Well, ten you say, ok, well, good. I think i understand you now. Great. But you don't seem to understand me. So i need you to do this. I don't like this. For me to be happy, also, you have to give me this, this and this, or you have to do this,. This is part of it, right? Win