How to Avoid Ridiculous Criticism in English

When we say that something is hurtful, this just means that it hurts the other person. So for example, let's say you want to give someone else criticism, a way to avoid giving this type of criticism is to use those tips that I gave you for giving constructive criticism. This is definitely not constructive criticism. You start with something that's really negative, maybe even hurtful for the other person in English. People will comment on my YouTube videos or whatever and they'll say, oh, your voice is so annoying or something like that. Even though it might be true, and I'm sure the person feels that way, it's completely irrelevant. They don't need to comment that