Almost any feminist action gets dismissed as not being the thing that you should actually be talking about. And also, if it really is h unimportant, it doesn't matter. We'll just give me what i want, then here go. If you really don't care either way, and i do care, why don't i have my way? That's the bit i write about in the book about the edinburgh seven who wanted to be admitted to university. There was a kind of apathy about it. Well, women wanting to go to university, y seems like a reasonawle ask, but i don't see why. It's our our priority right now.