The Importance of Joking About It

I think joking about it is because there's a thing with a lot of guys if you make a joke he'll really take it to heart and it'll eat him. So maybe that's the way to go. I don't think you can have a serious conversation about hey listen this is really this is moving too fast like I'm just you know make a casual joke about it. See you maybe wait to see what the third date is. Because maybe rope in you. Yeah maybe that's his pattern maybe it's like epic first date lame second date but then his third date is like hot air balloon ride and you're losing your mind. You're eating typhoon watching Netflix on a laptop