i think one of the threads that's really emerging between the two of you is how communication has developed over time. So i'm curious, like, what advice would both of you give to new couples who were starting out on this journey together? The takeaway would be, instead of simply falling into those rolls, to actually have the converse. And conversations can take a lot of different forms. If you have to write each other a letter, you sit out and talk, you text, phone, call, whatever it is,. You've got to find the way to do it, because otherwise those resentments will happen, and they will build up - which could lead to trouble in the long