Episode 248: Respect means different things to men and women
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The Effects of Respect on Dating Women
A man exercising deference isn't going to be making plans, setting updates, making decisions, or driving the relationship. A man can respect his woman like as a person, but on some level he has to turn that off in the bedroom in order to fuck her. For men, respect and assertive, masculine sexuality are at odds with each other. This might not be a problem for women when it affects men they aren't attracted to. When it affects menthey are attracted to, it can leave them feeling confused, frustrated, and disappointed. The two are mutually exclusive in a man's mind. Consideration influences but does not determine what a man does; this consideration can be expressed through
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