Insecurity in certain points of a relationship gets a little bit more like hard to just switch it on and off for some reason I don't understand what you mean. It's really I think for whatever reason but if you're in a relationship especially a newer relationship uh-huh And you actually really like the person yeah Yeah, so what you're talking about is the thing that I have to often talk about when it comes to leading teams and leading people Compared to leading to your family when you're dealing with the the loved one You got emotions and the emotions are what you have to try even harder to keep in check because you might be a little bit upset with your employee if they do something