How to Win a Contempt of Filing a TPO

Lawyer: I'd be concerned that most of the time TPOs say you can't have like a third party spy on the other party on your behalf. If she's running around filing contempt against you, and then she finds out the neighbor took some pictures of the lawyer coming over. Well, that that may give her evidence to actually win a contempt against you. So it's not a very I'm not feeling too good about you even bringing this up.