Choosing a Spouse

When you're choosing a mate, a spouse, I believe that is a time in which you should be and you have every right to be perfectly selfish. Same thing with intelligence, with physical attractiveness, etc. None of us did anything to deserve where we are, but we do have a responsibility to maximize those gifts that we have. Be thoughtful and careful about your spousal selection, even to these very practical, very visible things. Because it will make a huge difference in your life, it'll make ahuge difference in the lives of your children.