How to Deal With an Energy Vampire

I try to let all the relationships in my life develop organically. We're like, there's a real understanding between me and the person. And we have things to talk about that leave us both feeling like alive and happy. I always want to talk about not like how to solve this problem or get out of this mess, how to avoid being the mess in the first place. That's what sobriety, emotional sobriety is about. So if someone is forced intimacy for me is always like a red flag.