Do You Have a Friendship?

i know there's been a couple of times when i've reached out to dudes and like, all, maybe this person can be kind of a better friend than some one i have lunch with every six months or play tennis with once or twice a year. My wife is constantly tell me, like, shouldn't you call one of your friends and go hang out with them? Andi'll take no and hang out with you. It's not its, it's not a natural for men to say, oh, i'm having a connection with another adult male here. Let me foster this, encourage it, nurture it and leave voice mals,. You know, and voice memos every single day