The Importance of Having a List of Boundaries

I think again, that comes down to age, doesn't it? When we first met, we're in our 30s. But suddenly you date with a bit more intention when you are not in your 20s anymore. I've never dated anyone who has been weirdly close to them. And maybe I'm going to have the best of relationships. So I think at first I thought this was a bit like weird: Is this weirdly his mom and dad or what? It's probably because it's just so different to my relationship. Because it's not the same as me being really close to someone else. That can be a red flag if they don't give us any reason why