ADHD - How Do We Cope With That?

Family members who have a bad habit of guilt tripping, laying the guilt trip on you. How do we address that when we know that every year we gather for Thanksgiving and that's what we're expecting? And then more importantly, how do we cope with that? Feeling guilty? That's another big theme for individuals with ADHD, right? We get ourselves into trouble and we feel bad, right? Because we think we know how to do the right thing, but then we just trip ourselves up anyway, right? And then we feel bad.