The Manic Desire Is for Multiplicity

The spiritual director that I ended up hiring two years down the line from then did talk about the important sides of sexuality. So he started to make me realize that in order to really have a deep love to build something lasting, you needed to commit to one other person. The masculine desire is for multiplicity is what they would say. And I think there's something to it. There is some natural masculine desire in us to have different flavors that we can taste. But luckily Christ Grace is very healing. We need to have things like marriage and the sacraments are such a great gift in helping us rise to that difficulty.