The Importance of Accepting Yourself

I read um I want to say it was in Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life that he talks about this. Yeah which I read years ago so I can't remember if it was under a specific rule or not but basically he talks about how workplace bullying or joking oftentimes is exactly how a person who has some kind of severe social disorder corrects it. There are a bunch of other guys who are kind of like you said kind of cutting the rough edges off smoothing the rough edgesoff because they're sort of in a playful adjusting way sometimes less playful and more like actually trying to hurt you. In a real way they are showing you the socially unacceptable things you are doing. Absolutely right