Zen Buddhism - The Absolute or the Relative?

Sometimes it's the dialectic between the absolute and the relative that makes zen dialogues often so tricky. And then also, when you get stuck on one of those perspectives, you are then missing the boat altogether. So our a task is to live both these perspectives all the time and at the same time. But i'm not a great fan of the two truths because they're hardly ever mentioned explicitly in zend,. Just because they're too reason and there, you know, give you the illusionoh, i get it.