Do You Have a Sympathetic Nervous System?

We have polarities in our nervous system. We are regulating and impacting each other whether we want to or not. And how do we work with that together, so that we can create an alive, vital relationship that suits us? I think we get really when when it beecomes masculine feminine, because we have so much charge around gender rolls and our own gender identity  I just don't think that we can. It becomes more of a shold i should be more this way, you should be more that way, which doesn't help people. The polarity is what creates the electricity between am two people - there's an opposite going on. When you partner with someone, essentially