How Much Do You Put in for Your Child's Financial Independence?

i struggle with this idea of what's enough money. And i also haven't a different pivet, and that i have a 13 year old. For both willyiam and i, for the first time, have a child that we're thinking about college or things like that which are very different. Not to say our kids won't ever do that, but o knowing that my son, looking at that, i worry about,. That's a constant thing for me. Right now i have had to prioritize just my own financial independence, and then hope that in time i can work more towards hers. Do you ever feel, just kind of looking at your situation, that you're going