Do You Have a Spouse Who Will Not Respect Your No?

Lisse: Is it the way i'm being engaged? Or is it that i want a ridiculous amount of control? He doesn't listen to me when i try to talk to him, he just calls me names and tells me that issues are all my fault. So if you want to be ok with me, you've got to respect what i'm saying to you. Your choice, but these are the terms of my participation. Ah, my love language is quality time, in words of affirmation. I cannot be ok with that. If you think like i really do have a spouse who will not respect my no, that's an important issue to take up"