You really can address any issue if you can express your intent clearly. The first thing that we ask people to practise before opening their mouths in a crucial conversation is asking three questions. For gregg, how should his life be better? Why should he beg for me to have this conversation honestly with him? And until you've answered that question, you aren't ready to open your mouth. If you come in with selfish motives, the other person perceives it feels unsafe and then all the defences come up. But there are times that you'll make a judgment that the amount of skill in investment it would require to help somebody feel safe might be more than you're willing to invest. That's
Are there high-stakes conversations in your life that you need to have but are putting off?
This week I welcome special guest Joseph Grenny, one of the authors of the bestselling book, Crucial Conversations.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why silence is the most significant communication error we make
- The cost of not speaking up
- How to make it safe to talk about almost anything with almost anyone
Joseph's insight and experience will help you have better conversations about what matters most with those who matter most.
Credits:
- Hosted by Greg McKeown
- Produced by Greg McKeown and Scratch Audiohouse
- Executive Produced by Greg McKeown, Brent Montgomery, and Ed Simpson
- Co-Produced by Derrial Christon