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108 Your Story And Your Sexuality

The Place We Find Ourselves

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Sexual Harm in the Past Becomes Reenacted in the Present

There's a connection between your painful growing up experiences and your present sexual life. You could take any present day sexual struggle, whether it's inordinate desire or if it's low, shut down, no desire, and you can draw an arrow from that struggle directly back to particular moments in your past story. All of that is to say this, sexual harm in the past becomes re enacted in the present. The other category would just be the re enactment of a type of belief about oneself. And then look at how your sexual behaviour provides irrefutable evidence that the voice of shame is true. So listen to that cors belief that shame wants to convince you of,. and then look at

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