You Can Have a Baby However You Want to Have a Baby

I think everything is hard and what I'm really trying to do is having gone through it myself just like right after having a lump back to me it was really it was hard but I also think that you can have a baby however you want to have a baby. For me where I'm really focused on was all of the energy that I spent in my 20s actively not trying to get pregnant but also rejecting a lot of messages about what family meant to me. It takes me like five years to figure out why I'm upset or mad about something and then five years I'm going well the statute of limitations is expired on this feeling. Now I'm just trying to sit in the gross feelings