319: Cracking the Nut - How to Breakthrough the Hard Shell Around Your Partner
Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy
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I'm Taking Space. Space Is Your Friend
Rand: My protection works for me, but it has a horrible impact on my partner. When your saer comes to you, you move away - that's your you're taking space. You're trying to regulate your body from how it hit you. Rand: I need get better at talking about the ouch, because in the ouch is the need,. If my fear is un failing, i need messages that even if i fail, it's going to be ok, you're still going to be loved. It's around acceptance and love and responsiveness instead of what these protective moves actually wind up doing y a case.
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