Is She Not My Best Friend?

i'm a christian, so biblically, i believe that my wife and i are one. Friend is too low a term for what she is, you know, for she's one with me. Friends can innately understand what's going on with you. But even just saying that, like, she's not my best friend, i look, people look at me, and i feel you're judging me. My marriage is 32 years. It's probably better than yours. Stop judging me. And also, like you say, we need different avenues, whether it be male versus female, or like the point of friends is that we are not we're not one dimensional.