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You Can’t Always Want What You Like

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

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Why Do We Choose to Do It?

Paul Waldman argues that what we like is complicated. He says hard work and pain feel good because they take up a lot of mental band with. We choose suffering filled activities because they help to bolster our identity, he says. But this raises an even bigger question: Why does effort and suffering wind up feeling good?

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