Are There Quick, Occasional Ways to Identify a Borderline Personality Disorder Woman?

So what are some ways to identify a borderline personality disorder woman or not? I just kind of have to put the suite of traits together. Things to look out for are extreme mood swings, you know, going from like loving and everything's great to intense anger over something maybe very small. It tends to be people who are a little bit maybe insecure in themselves that can be easily blackmailed into getting into this emotional cycle they bring them into.