Is There a False Responsibility That's Removed?

I think what's interesting is as you let go of that unhealthy control I like you actually end up becoming a better parent right yeah. The very thing you think you're going to lose by kind of letting a bit of control go the oppositeYeah there's like a false responsibility that's removed and when you remove that it allows you to be more present to them and allow you to be able to provide for your child.