Do I Invite This Cant Grandma to My Wedding?

"i would just, elope and i would have a party in your back yard," she says. "Just go out and tell the person that you're going to be with." But what about his side of the family? If they love her, and then they want to be there, i know, but it's bigger than that though,. So it's got to be the two of them, and then afterwards they have a big party, and that's the thing".