The End of a Job

I think sometimes if we're attached to something that we want to accomplish what's really underneath it is going am I valuable. Am I worthy of being seen? Am Iworthy of love? And ultimately that's what we want. So what we can do is to let go of the specificity of this goal if we can have some kind of security in the fact that I still am worthy to be seen and worthy to be loved. Well this goes to shame. If I have to walk around as a divorced person I will feel ashamed of myself. But there's so much suffering especially in marriages. It's our job to share stories of very smart letting go slash giving up moments that are worthy of