" avoidance of emotion motivates our clients to stay stuck, ok? Is a key concept, which i think you'll allalready understand. You'll get that," she says. "You have to emotionally suppressa lot of shame to keep playing video games all day long when you're like, 26 and going nowhere in life." 'I'd stick it with. I'll be ready when, ok?' he responds. "'What is person like wher where' What's the emotional violence?"  she asks. ''And what's going on emotionally in that person'?'' ""They want to make sure that it does work out,' they say.' So we have to une stand that