And iis so scary to be a guy a field like i'm completely helpless in this situation, and she's going to fock me, and i'm going to nok in seconds, in seconds. So you need to get the power back. Nula a ra, this is, this is lilit. This is actually, like, we're on the same level human being. This is just a gil relax, yes. Just like golax. Ye am. And then if you are nervous, again, with tha, transparency ting. If you are nervous, then you need to be about. Wherever you nervous about, you need to be transparent about so if you're nervous about the power dynamic, for example, because she's so much more experienced than you, then you do what we just said. If you're nervous about like or she's going to be a freak, a leak, and i m going to knut quick, then you need to be transparent about that. And i bet, just tell her, i bet you're fucky and freaky. I bet your going to make me nut. In ten seconds, the first nut is for me, family. Elex, now, i ready know you're freak. This first nught is all for me. I'm going to enjoy it. And then ten minutes after that, it's all about you. Transparency. Ye, there's no shame in this yeyes. Let, the way you deliver it, the way you deliver it. Her expectations, you decide what her expectations are. Don't be talking about she's expecting this, that and the other. You decide what she expects, cause you are laying down. What's going to happen? Preac let, no, i will be noting immediately. And this is all for me. It's all for me. And it's all your fault. Yes, that's it. I already know what that puss is going to do to me. I can't wait for him. I'm going to knock so hard straightway. And i cannot wait. And then after that, you're going to knok so hard. Facts, she's going to be gadallasgsgasgas. Now she's been thinking, fock. What if he doesn't not straightway now, so she's going to be thinking, now, i me to make him much. I nee to make him sure he's not straightway, because he's, he's been dealing with his young host and these tight toms. I don't know if on could make him know straightaway. So broad that she's going to go, ga, and there's no pressure for you now. The facts, you've switched the you've switched the hortings, and now you got some liqurid courage. You've got the power dynamic back. And you don't have to be worried about bussing quick the bulls in your court. Facs, you're fine. You're fine. I think that's prbably the best advice collected ye've ever given. O was perfacton that. Io, there is no losing this. There's perfect advice. Set the expectations yourself, and you cannot fail. Facts. Facts. Yes. Man. Nothing that's done and done. I would love some feedback. Yes, she listens to this and in patents. Ye, ye, run us back to feed. Ye, we'lgo to need to feed. Were intrigued. Yea, she trying to help you. Diois we liode like to laugh at people's whas the word i lokng for pain, pain or dis dismay, or everysco ye, ye. W you give you advice? Tis, ye, ye. Real, real life advice. O ye, raks, run and run it back to us. Let us know whye, go on and run it back to us, ecause i'm intrigued for you, extremely intrigriged for you. Ausethat's a position to be bro and i felt that fear. I know what that fear feels like.