Ep. 369 - Overcome the Fear of Being Seen - The Process with Alexandria
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
Embracing Adaptability and Authenticity
This chapter focuses on the importance of adapting practices to individual needs and personal circumstances. It discusses the struggle of transitioning from a frantic mentality to one of rest, emphasizing internal awareness and the dangers of operating from a place of desperation.
What if your dream life was on the other side of the fear of being “cringe?”
In this expansive Process episode, Jessica sits down with TBM community member Alexandria to explore what it looks like to manifest from alignment when everything familiar falls away. From starting out as a fitness influencer to becoming a retreat host and conscious creator, Alexandria shares how she moved through the fear of being seen, reconnected with her inner child, and followed intuitive pings that led her to quit her job, heal old wounds, and sell out her first retreat—all without a perfect plan in place.
Together, they dive deep into the power of expanders, the role of vision holders, the energetics of desperation, and why honoring your nervous system is the key to your most aligned, magnetic life.
**Trigger warning: Discussion of alcoholism and parental loss at 19:07 through 23:54
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In This Episode We Talk About:
- How Alexandria discovered TBM through a synchronistic podcast episode
- The emotional toll of silencing her voice after leaving the fitness influencer world
- The pivotal moment she received an intuitive ping to quit her job
- The role of vision holders and the importance of expanders in transformation
- Healing grief and self-worth wounds through inner child connection
- Shifting from desperation to trust during career transitions
- How to know when it's time to take a leap (even without a full safety net)
- Why rest is a radical act of alignment in hyper-productive culture
- How personal dreams and micro-manifestations fuel greater magnetism
- Shedding external validation in favor of soul-aligned expression
- The year of stripping away inauthenticity to reveal essence
Mentioned In the Episode:
- Expanded x Ep. 329 - How to Be Authentic in Every Room and Find Your Purpose
- Expanded x Ep. 287 - You Can’t Rush Your Manifestations: The Energetics of Desperation
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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Coming October 21st!
The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.
Each episode features TBM teachings, community stories, and tools to reprogram the subconscious, heal your inner child, and reclaim your worth. We explore astrology, human design, internal family systems, and more to shift your energetic blueprint.
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