How Does Romantic Signaling Escalate?

No woman really even, even like an eighth grade girl, is that comfortable with a guy being obsessively in love with her when he hasn't even talked to her yet. So let's talk about romantic signaling escalation. Well, first you pay attention to the woman, right? You look at her and then you talk. And then you invest more time and doing fun stuff together. It goes on from there, but what freaks women out is when you immediately escalate to colossal romantic obsession without going through those stages first.