My Husband's Disappointment

He got out of school nine years ago. We married when he was struggling to find a position at a place that paid the average rate for a vet. He has parlayed his previous experience in nursing and business to consult on the side for businesses such as nursing homes, hospice, substance abuse treatment facilities. I don't begrudge my husband finding other women attractive even if he doesn't hide it from me but I want warmth from our marriage.