Is This Really Mean Behavior?

Diana's brother is getting married and she sees her mother and father are in the same place. She doesn't see that that often. And so she sees her mom doing this and like, oh, another failed marriage, mom, get it together. Also, it's a way of not recognizing yourself and maybe like talking to that aspect of yourself in a way that you don't see as that. The people who need our help are often very mean. Yes. It feels like really disingenuous not to include this.