I don't want to spend my time on things that I think are someone else's responsibility. One of the most effective ways is to kind of ask why they are asking you. They're not thinking about the work that you have to put in or whose job it is. And very often, we have to be the ones asking the right questions.
Today, Vanessa explains how the super skill of "empowered refusal" can help you say "no" no in a way that is persuasive and does not elicit pushback from others.