I think if you're learning from porn chances are you're maybe getting a little bit of a skewed version of your learning from free accessible under the table porn. There's a lot of great porn out there I just think that as a young person especially young person who's discouraged from finding sexual information you're not going to know where to look. We don't want our porn to look like us we want to look cartoonish so massive breasts huge penises over the top scenes because if we saw ourselves in that role we would experience shame. The only way to experience pleasure when thinking about sex as a fantasy is to have it as far removed as from reality as possible.
Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex. Also sex. Buckle up, Ologites, because clinical sexologist and author Shannon Boodram (known for her sex educational YouTube channel ShanBoody) chats with Alie about sexual identity, how a friggin' vagina works, how to get over slumps, love languages, monogamy vs. open relationships, dating in the wake of #metoo, some fun with prostate orgasms, foot fetishes and why relationships can be like pizza. Then at the very very end Alie talks about the weirdest sex dream she's ever had SORRY.
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Editing by Steven Ray Morris
Music by Nick Thorburn