I think if you're learning from porn chances are you're maybe getting a little bit of a skewed version of your learning from free accessible under the table porn. There's a lot of great porn out there I just think that as a young person especially young person who's discouraged from finding sexual information you're not going to know where to look. We don't want our porn to look like us we want to look cartoonish so massive breasts huge penises over the top scenes because if we saw ourselves in that role we would experience shame. The only way to experience pleasure when thinking about sex as a fantasy is to have it as far removed as from reality as possible.

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