Is There a Responsibility Versus a Blame?

It seems to me like it can be such an habitual thing to do. There has to be, ah, either an accusation or a sense of guilt. I comes from the natural tendency to survive and protect ourselves. So first of all, i want to shine that light on to say that just because that's your default thinking, is nothin wrong with you. And we don't have to choose to think like that. But like anything else, it starts with the awareness of that being the case. If one of those two things aren't there, then you can never land the plane. The other tether is, why? Where am i going? What's my way here? What's