The Importance of Physical Intimacy

If a girl is having difficulty with lubrication in bed as in getting wet enough, it's not necessarily that you need to slow down. Men have this problem too. Physical intimacy requires a relatively high degree of emotional vulnerability. You have to feel not just physically safe with someone, actually feeling physicallysafe with someone is not a requirement for arousal at all,. Not for women, and particularly not for women. But there's a degree of emotionalulnerability that's required for physiological arousal as well. If it's a guy or a girl, I advocate a strong emphasis on taking the pressure off each individual to quote unquote perform.